We have been going to court for months on custody of my child with father who I never married. He is also an attorney. It started with my house burning down. The father refused to bring my son back from visitation and went the next day for an emergency temporary custody order. He claimed child endangerment. I had recently met someone and he found out about it and told the judge I was allowing this man to spend the night with my children there. This is an absolute lie but judge will not believe me. I have been ordered not see this man again by the judge or I will loose my child permanantly. .There is a lot of past domestic violence in our relationship with police reports, pictures and audio of threats to my life. He has threatened me many times in front of my child. The judge not only threatened contempt of court if my attorney mentioned it again but, ordered me to parenting class and random drug testing in which the father has convienced judge I am on drugs. Over this past year I have had random drug tests on 40 negatives and 4 hair folicle test randomly done. All have been negative. My doctor prescribed Zanex for anziety due to all my legal problems and abuse. I told the judge about it and the people whom gave me a drug test. The test came back negative.The judge thinks I am altering the test. She ordered 3 more months of it before I can go back to court. The judge let the father sit in the witness stand for over an hour with no interuptions verbally abusing me. She allowed him to put me down and tell her how dumb he thought I was and I couldn’t even cook oatmeal. He talked about I was so uninteligent that I had nothing to offer in conversation. He told the court I was uneducated. I am on my 4th attorney and nobody will help me or stand up to this man or the judge. I feel I will loose my child. I have been in several couseling sessions along with my 12 year old son. He is in a school for advanced studies. This child never had problems until all this.This child is now in counseling because of witnessing abuse and hearing it everyday for several yesrs. He has a different father. Judge will not let us talk about it. I simply don’t know where to go for someone to help me with this nightmare. He has temporary custody and just recently I was allowed to seemy son without supervision. I have spent every dime on legal defenses and work 7 days a week for the past year to pay for all this. If I didn’t know better I would think I was in the middle east countries where they stone women. This judge will slaughter me and my attorney if we report her right now. I simply don’t knowhow I can be heard with this Judge. Is there a way in Oklahoma law to get the court room reporters papers on this case? How can I find out about complaints on a judge or lawyer? Help!!!
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get phone book. look up “woman-care.” make appointment. go talk to them.
Wow sounds as if you are in a pickle. Maybe ask for a new judge. You have everything documented don’t you? Get a new lawyer perhaps but it sounds as if he has that all covered too. I don’t know sounds as if the judge is biased against you demand a new judge. Sue him for fraud and personal deformation. Sounds also as if he is stalking you also…. have you thought of moving out of his reach? And filing in another county? Two can play the evil game you know. Hire a private eye have him followed and see what he is up too if he has girls in and out around your child you can claim the same BS.
Appeal the decision to a higher court (you’ll get a different judge). Or go to an attorney/lawyer that specialises in this sort of thing.
If you are on your 4th attorney – and none of them will “stand up” to this judge – that’s the first sign that you are in the wrong. Attorneys routinely ask judges to remove themselves from cases, and if they aren’t doing that here, its because there isn’t grounds.
As for the rest, all you can really do is appeal any decision you don’t like. Whether or not that gets you anywhere remains to be seen. It all sounds like the judge has been operating within his authority and discretion. Just because you don’t like it doesn’t make it wrong.
In general, when one disaagrees with a judgment issued by a court, the remedy is to appeal. You can get the transcripts by contacting the court reporter and paying for the transcripts. There are also ways to disqualify a judge for bias but in most places that must be done at the earliest moment.
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